This story is of course about gender, not K-pop, but it would be wrong to not highlight these people. I can't talk about my gender journey without talking about these people, because I genuinely don't think I would know I was non-binary if it weren't for them-- I promise you.
They completely changed my life. I'll try to not overwhelm you with K-pop things, so pick one person, and I'll tell you a little more about him.